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Do you have a special memory of Valentine's Day?
One Valentine's Day long ago turned into a marriage proposal from Bill. That's the end of the story. The story started early in the evening after a hard day of skiing at what is now Palisades Tahoe. We waited in line for two hours for a coveted table at a local, old-style Italian restaurant on the North shore that didn't take reservations and was hopping with other skiers ready to consume some hardy food and drink.
Once seated, we got into a heated discussion about the roles of a husband and a wife, differing in our opinions. In the end, though, Bill asked me to marry him, and I said, "Yes." After many years of marriage with all of its challenges and joys, I would still say, "Yes," to his question.
We will exchange cards on Valentine's Day. Sometimes, I make one from material I have on hand with the help of our cat. Other times I rely on store-bought ones. I've received in return a few handmade cards back from Bill.
Valentine's Day card from Bill |
If you need some ideas, here are some quick Valentine's Day cards to make.
All you need for the three designs are postcard-sized paper, small heart-shaped and square doilies, a collection of plain and patterned papers, raffia, glue, and some embellishments. For hearts, you can use a heart-shaped punch, your die-cut machine, or cut out the hearts yourself.
For each postcard, cut out a sheet of paper the size of your postcard. Glue it down to the postcard surface.
From your collection of papers, cut out 4-5 layers of paper, each one smaller than the last. Glue them down on the first paper. On postcard #2 (top right), make sure the last paper is plain. Set your postcards under a book to help the glue adhere securely.
Once the postcards are dry:
Postcard 1 (top left): Write what you would like to say inside a doily and glue it to the layers of paper. Tie raffia into a bow and glue it to the heart.
Postcard 2: Cut out the inside heart of the doily. Glue doily down on the plain piece of paper. Write your message on the plain piece of paper underneath the doily. Glue on a raffia bow and embellishment.
Postcard 3: Cut out two small same-size rectangles. Cut out a heart from the metallic piece. Cut out a half-circle from a patterned paper and glue it to the other plain rectangle. Glue the plain piece to the background layers. Glue the metallic piece on top. Put under a book to dry. Attach a rectangular doily on top. Write your message on the center heart.
Place your postcards in an envelope to mail to your sweetheart or to someone who could use a little love. And remember whatever you do:
Great story but the mouse hole got me guffawing. I used to put one in EVERY interior drawing I did as a kid!!
ReplyDelete(and the thump thump sound is embedded as a trope in the sound track of all romance Korean dramas when one lead falls for the other. The oblivious or recalcitrant male lead will often ONLY realize he's fallen hard when he hears his own heart speed up, lol sometimes an acupuncturist is taking a pulse to determine his "affliction")He will then pound on his chest hard several times to self-acknowledge (another trope)
Hi Teejay,
DeleteI love your anecdotes about mouse holes and Korean dramas -- something I never thought I would see mentioned together in one paragraph. Happy Valentine's Day!
I should also add that I use a variety of random note shapes if my comment is to be taken as a musical one. Have not seen anyone else do this till now. I use the note emojis quite often, lol
DeleteGood idea, Teejay!
DeleteThe argument before the proposal--love it! If you can propose after a heated argument, you are indeed the one! Nice V-day card suggestions too!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Chandra Lynn. It helps to have a good sense of humor. Otherwise, that argument might have ended everything!
DeleteFrom Cheryl by email: I can’t imagine what your “heated” discussion was about with regard to the roles of a husband and a wife because you differed in your opinions.
ReplyDeleteYou are so well suited for each other, compliment each other, and “true love” is always obvious to us.
Thank you, Cheryl. So glad you can still see the "true love" between us. Bill changed his point of view shortly after we married. Ha!
DeleteBeautiful cards. Thank you for the reminder. Valentine’s Day isn’t far off and I’d better get busy making some. 💝
ReplyDeleteThank you, Suzette. Now I know your cards will be wonderful too.
DeleteFrom Linda on FB: Ah, valentines…! James & I used to shop for valentines & we’d end up with a pile of them! I also drew him a rather pornographic one that was during the early stages of our romance. I won’t describe it except to say it ended with a heart made up two shapes that fit together. He also proposed to me on Valentine’s Day. We never married, but we felt we were.
ReplyDeleteFrom Hugh on FB: OK, so Ginny & I met at a Valentine’s Day party.
ReplyDeleteThe couple who gave the party speculated beforehand about who might connect - they settled on Ginny & me.
But I actually brought another woman to the party.
Somehow though Ginny & I were sitting near each other & got into a conversation. I was 38 & she was 33 but I thought she was 23, for gosh sake. I remember her as having an animated & very flexible face (odd I know but you have to meet her). She also seemed sad & maybe scared. We talked about doing artwork.
At one point, the woman that I came with, I guess sensing a competitor, appeared behind me & draped her hands around my neck & hugged me (what can I say?).
Ginny’s always claimed that she said to the woman in her mind, “what are you doing to my future husband?”
From Sue on FB: If we're sharing meet cute stories, Keith and I met at a backyard BBQ at mutual friends who'd been trying to get around our separate "NO matchmaking!" edicts. I stopped by Payless and bought a dozen 50 cent squirt guns, and handed them out. Keith and I met when I ambushed him in the yard. We were all running around hiding behind shrubs acting like 8 year olds, squealing and laughing our heads off. WE both felt very comfortable w/ each other like old friends and made a date that night. We fell pretty hard. 3 months later I moved in. 9 YEARS later we got married in Reno.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Sue, for sharing this story of your first meeting. What a way to get to know each other -- squirt gun fight. I love the responses people have sent me regarding meeting the loves of their lives.
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